1. Date Recap

• Date #1: Romantic dinner on the water — great vibes.
• Date #2: Movie night at Sam’s house.
• Clean house, no pressure, no physical move.
• Seemed respectful… maybe too respectful?

2. The Turning Point

• Netflix profile reveals ex-wife’s name: “Monica.”
• Jordan learns:
• Sam still pays for Netflix.
• Pays her phone bill.
• Pays her car insurance.
• They’re divorced — but financially still connected.

3. Jordan’s Perspective

• Feels like the ex is “still present.”
• Questions whether Sam is truly over her.
• Concerned about constant communication.
• Dealbreaker: Doesn’t want to compete with an ex’s shadow.

4. Sam’s Defense

• Says it’s “easier” to keep things as-is.
• Claims it doesn’t cost him much extra.
• Sees it as practical, not emotional.
• Doesn’t think it’s a big deal — refuses to change it.

5. The Breakdown

• Jordan stands firm: Cut ties or move on.
• Sam stands firm: Not changing anything.
• No second date #3.

6. Takeaway

• Is financial support for an ex ever “no big deal”?
• Where’s the line between convenience and emotional attachment?
• Would you date someone still financially tied to their ex?