7 No-Nos That Spell Bad Etiquette at Concerts

• Throwing Things at the Stage. You're Not Thor!

  Never throw objects, such as drinks or debris, during a concert. This can cause harm to other concertgoers and disrupt the performance. Not to mention, it’s just rude. In July, singer BeBe Rexha had to get stitches after getting hit by a cellphone during her New York show.

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• Holding Giant Posters & Signs. You're Not On the Picket Line!

  Certain performers are open to engaging with signs displayed by fans in the audience. But oversized banners and signs can be disruptive, potentially obstructing the view for other concert attendees. Imagine dropping a bunch of cash to see your favorite artist, and all you get is a close-up of someone’s giant poster. So, maybe think twice about lugging those signs along and just leave them at home. Still, it’s worth noting that a massive sign isn’t necessarily a concert showstopper. Take, for instance, Chris Dare and his wife Shantelle, who attended Adele’s Las Vegas show in August. They held up a sign that read, “Adele, will you do our gender reveal?” To everyone’s surprise, Adele invited them on stage, saying, “No one’s really allowed signs in here. I’m just obsessed that you got one in. I’ve never done this.” She then revealed the baby’s gender in a viral video moment.

  People should know by now that signs like that only obstruct other people’s view. I get that you likely want The Weeknd to see it, but it’s not fair to everyone else.

  — steven ☀️ (@arianaunext) July 11, 2023

• Excessive Phone User

  Bright screens and loud notifications can be distracting. Silence your phone, and if you need to use it, step out of the concert area. This also goes for taking photos and videos. A few pics or short videos are cool, but nobody wants to watch the whole concert through your shaky camera. Plus, it can block others’ views. In July, Miranda Lambert stopped her Las Vegas concert mid-song to call out fans for taking selfies.

  

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• In & Out Concertgoer

  Don’t be that person who’s always up and down during a concert. If you absolutely have to leave your seat, do it quietly when there’s a break between songs. Think about it, every time you get up, you make a whole row stand up to let you through. So, save your bathroom breaks and drink refills for intermissions, or opt for an aisle seat if you know you’ll be up and down a lot during the show. It’ll help keep things smooth for everyone.

  

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• Loud Chit Chat

  Nobody likes the person who talks loudly during the entire concert. They’re the one who chats with their friends at full volume, not realizing they’re annoying everyone else trying to enjoy the music. Essentially, they unintentionally disrupt the concert experience for others who just want to listen to the music without constant chatter in the background. If you want to chat, do it outside the concert area.

  

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• Inebriation Nation

  Excessive drinking or drug use can lead to obnoxious behavior and can be a safety concern. In a way, the concertgoer who’s sloppy drunk or high is like the wild card at the concert. They add an unpredictable element to the mix. While they might be having a blast, their actions can be a distraction and annoyance to others who are trying to enjoy the music in a more composed manner.

  

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• Space Invader

  Remember to respect people’s personal space and be aware of how you move around in the crowd. Most concerts are all about dancing and having a good time, so feel free to dance the night away. Just be sure to look around and make sure you’re not accidentally bumping into others while you’re at it. Additionally, being considerate means refraining from pushing or shoving them to get closer to the stage.

  

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